The Gift of Silence

The gift of silence.

Does adding your opinion to the argument raging in front of you help?

Do you need to share your ‘Why’?

Before you go into more detail, is it necessary?

Do you need to stoke the fire under an upset?

Is another violent film or series streaming into your home going to soothe your spirit?

Does seeking validation for choices already made change them in any way?

Will sharing your latest idea or project nurture the creative spark?

Do you need to answer that email, text, message or call straight away?

Are you escalating a situation or flowing in calm?

Do you need to prove you may be right?

How much is making a point going to cost at that moment or further down the line?

Are you verbally kicking someone when they are down?

Will off-loading, venting or sharing help?

When did you last check your spoken word input vs output ratio?

What outcome are you aiming for?

Is what you are about to say kind?

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We are all being exhorted to over-share, off-load, splurge our feelings, and share our opinions with others, whether they have asked for them or not.

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Pause, go at a pace that doesn’t pull you apart.

It is wise to be silent where and when you can.

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Here is an excerpt from this Thoughtful Tuesday, entitled, Staying Small.

‘Happy Easter’ to those of you who celebrate this festival and my love to you all, till next week. 💛