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Candy Kennedy's avatar

Jane, I sensed something was amiss in your life after you left a comment on my recent writing. I have been on this journey, although for us it was an 85 day struggle with acute myeloid leukemia. Although it did not end well for my beloved husband, we were positive until the last day that he would survive. That is the kind of optimism you must carry with you. We never let doubt in the door. It was a gift to him, albeit a hardship from me to overcome later.

From my experience, I began writing after his loss and that helped me to find new passions in service to others. It was the key to getting up each day. I did not know that writing could be this powerful and wish I had shown that kindness to myself earlier, during his battle.

Be good to yourself and each other. I will have nothing but healing thoughts for you both.

Jane Dalton's avatar

Dear Candy, we hold you in our hearts and are so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. Xx We admire how you are finding what works for you and being of service to others.

Your instincts are spot on, and you are absolutely right about not letting doubt in the door. 🩷

Writing is a gift and a kindness. Xx

Our love to you, and thank you for taking the time to leave us such a loving message. 🩷 Xx

H Stearley's avatar

❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

Jane Dalton's avatar

💕 Lovely H 💕 Xxxx

Peter Aldino's avatar

Jane and Tim - I struggle to find words to express the depth of these feelings, yet intuitively I know you feel the energy, and depth of the love being sent here along with this simple expression “Be well, be whole, and always be blessed”. We carry you in our hearts 💕… Peter and Marge

Jane Dalton's avatar

Dearest Peter and Marge, thank you, and yes, we can feel the depth of love and energy flowing. Thank you. Our love to you both, always. Xxx ❤️

Esther Stanway-Williams's avatar

Oh Jane, what devastating news for you both. I know you are quite rightly making decisions about what you share, but I’m glad you will still be connecting with other writers on here and I look forward to reading your future posts. Sending love ❤️

Jane Dalton's avatar

Hello Esther, you are so lovely and kind. We appreciate your understanding and supportive encouragement. Our love to you. ❤️

Esther Stanway-Williams's avatar

Jane 🫂

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Esther 🩷

Al Hood's avatar

Jane, so sorry to read about Tim's diagnosis. It is truly a blessing that you have each other to lighten the load of the journey ahead. I know you are a great comfort to him as you are to so many others. Please know you are both in our thoughts every day.

Jane Dalton's avatar

Thank you, my heart brother, for your kind and thoughtful message. Your loving grace flows as always, and we can feel that.

Our love to you and Patty, always, with hugs. Xxxx 💕

John W.Howell's avatar

I'm so sorry to hear of Tim's medical challenge. You are very right to hold on together. That is the only true way to face this situation. If you can speak honestly with each other about any fears and concerns, it will help a great deal. I write from experience as I am fighting metastatic prostate cancer, which was diagnosed in October. My love to you both.

Jane Dalton's avatar

Thank you for your kind and understanding thoughts and words, John. We are so sorry to hear about your diagnosis and pray your treatment is going as smoothly as it can. You are absolutely right about sharing concerns and fears, as loving teamwork lifts on this journey. Please give our love to Mrs H, Twiggy and Tempeste, and much love to you, dearest John, as we hold you in our hearts and prayers. I applaud how you are carrying on. Our love to you all. Xxx 💕

John W.Howell's avatar

Thank you.

Jane Dalton's avatar

Oh John, I'm sorry as I didn't finish my last sentence to you! I applaud you for carrying on with your writing and your blog. ❤️

John W.Howell's avatar

I continue because I believe it is important to feel that one's projects will be completed and not succumb to a sense of uselessness. Healing is a matter of science and spirit. Both need to work together. If the spirit flags, then the body will take the hint and follow. Love to you both, and keep getting those hands dirty.

Jane Dalton's avatar

Tim and I totally agree with you, John. Everything that keeps Tim being Tim is so important right now, just as everything that keeps you being you, matters so very much. We may need to pivot and adjust, but being you is vital. We got our hands dirty this morning! Much love to you all from both of us. Xxx ❤️

John W.Howell's avatar

Good for both of you.

Sue Dreamwalker's avatar

Dearest Jane and Tim. If any two people can hold fast together, through this next phase of your journey, I know it is both of you.

My continued love and prayers are being sent my friend. And remember, you both come first... We will always be here, so feel under no obligation or pressure..

Sending love and healing vibes xx 💖🙏✨

Jane Dalton's avatar

Dearest Sue, you are a lovely friend, and we so appreciate all your loving, healing energy and thoughtfulness.

We are sending you all our love, healing energy and holding you all in our loving thoughts, with soft hugs. Xxxxxxx 🩷😘🩷🦉✨🌻

Darlene Foster's avatar

Together, you will navigate this part of your journey. Maintaining normalcy and peace is key. Sending love and prayers. ❤️❤️

Jane Dalton's avatar

Thank you so much for your recommendation. Your loving support is much appreciated, Darlene. Xxx 🩷🩷

Jane Dalton's avatar

Thank you, Darlene. Yes, a calm and loving routine (even one that changes daily) is vital. Thank you for your love and prayers, and we are sending our love to you and Paul Xxx 🩷🩷

Jan Sikes,  Author's avatar

Love has the power to heal. I believe that, Jane and Tim. I will help hold space and visualize Tim's complete healing. Hugs to you both!