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H Stearley's avatar

Dis-connection is many times re-connection with what matters :-)

Jane Dalton's avatar

Yes, H, weaving life in circles. Much love to you. Xx ❤️

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❤️❤️❤️

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❤️❤️❤️

Lauren Scott's avatar

Your realization is so profound and wise, Jane. These lines resonated:

"Long-term decisions are beyond our grasp, and we accept that. Day-to-day choices are simpler to make if we loosen our grip on what was." Finding joy in simple things and moments mean much more. Your post also inspires those who are in a similar situation.

Sending you and Tim comforting hugs and lots of love. xoxo

Jane Dalton's avatar

I'm humbled by your loving words, dearest Lauren. Thank you for your comforting hugs and love. We are sending much love to you and Matt, and are so glad you had a lovely hike. Xxxxx ❤️😘✨️❤️

Lauren Scott's avatar

Always, Jane! And thanks for the love too! More hugs flowing your way. xoxoxo 🥰💫💞

Jane Dalton's avatar

Much love to you both. Xxx 💕🌻💕

John W.Howell's avatar

I can fully appreciate the changes that come with the need to focus on one's health. Sometimes these changes are a pivot to a better way of living. You have described the situation perfectly. Projects take on smaller accomplishments and the recognition that nothing needs to be done all at once. Small pleasures like the laundry become large in the process. Bless you and Tim. My prayers are for your peace and comfort.

Jane Dalton's avatar

Oh, John, your words and understanding are a balm. Thank you so much. We hold you in our prayers and are sending healing energy. Much love to you all, and we wish you, Mrs H, Twiggy and Tempeste a restful weekend. Xxx 💕

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Darlene Foster's avatar

Enjoying the simple, everyday things in life is a good coping strategy. xo

Esther Stanway-Williams's avatar

To let the old lives rest, as we learn to rest in the new. 💕

I admire your decision…of course, it’s easier to write these lines than enact them, but everything in this piece shows that is exactly what you’re doing.

And yes, comparison is the thief of joy. I loved reading about those quiet moments you are spending together instead. Squandering our most precious gift of all, our time, is the true tragedy.

Sending love to you both ❤️

Jane Dalton's avatar

Hello, lovely Esther, you are so right, it is much easier to write these words than live by them. When we feel the tear of looking back, we are fortunate to have each other to bring us back to now. There is so much to be grateful for in that. Much love to you, and thank you for your kind and thoughtful words. Xxx ♥️

Jane Dalton's avatar

Thank you, lovely Darlene. Much love to you and Paul and we wish you a good weekend. Xx ❤️